Teen Dating Violence: Warning Signs and How To Address Them
Updated: Mar 4
By: Karina Santiago-Velazquez (Therapist)
As a therapist, I can attest to the profound effect that violence can have in interpersonal relationships - for adolescents and adults alike. Teenagers are equally susceptible to finding themselves in such a situation, and it's important teen-dating-violence-warning-signs-and-how-to-address-themparents and their surrounding communities are able to help them identify and address them. But first, what exactly does violence within the teenage dating experience entail?
It refers to a pattern of abusive behaviors used to exert power and control over a dating partner. It can happen in person or through digital means (like social media or text messages). The abuse can be physical, emotional, psychological, sexual, or financial. Sadly, it affects many young people, and it can happen to anyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
Here are some types of teen dating violence:
Physical abuse: Hitting, slapping, choking, or any other physical harm.
Emotional/psychological abuse: Manipulating, threatening, or humiliating a partner, making them feel worthless.
Sexual abuse: Forcing or coercing someone into sexual acts without their consent.
Digital abuse: Using technology to control or manipulate a partner, such as excessive texting, tracking locations, or spreading rumors online.
Verbal abuse: Name-calling, insults, or constant belittling to hurt the partner emotionally.
Some warning signs of an abusive relationship can include:
One partner trying to control the other (where they go, who they talk to).
Frequent jealousy or possessiveness.
Isolation from friends and family.
Mood swings, anger, or intimidation.
Physical signs of injury that aren’t properly explained.
It's important for teens to understand that they deserve to be in healthy, respectful relationships. If someone is experiencing dating violence, it’s crucial to reach out to trusted adults, like parents, school counselors, or a helpline.
To reiterate, there are resources available to those dealing with dating violence. See them below and click through for support. And if you'd like to discuss your situation or refer someone to me for guidance, contact the Tree of Life front office at 337-703-2806 or you can book a consultation online.
Lousiana Local Resources:
Disclaimer: If you are in immediate danger, please call 911 or visit your nearest emergency room. For crisis services, you can call 988. The National Domestic Violence Hotline can assist via phone 800.799.SAFE (7233), chat, or text.
Karina is a bilingual (Spanish-speaking) provisional licensed counselor in the state of Louisiana. She offers in person and telehealth session to children ages 10+, teens, adults, and couples.
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